The missing link to full embodiment
I work with many different kinds of clients from all walks of life. I have psychiatrists as clients, coaches, healers, (psycho)therapists, soulpreneurs, stay-at-home moms, students (often on payment plans), and the occasional man that works with me. I help a lot of different clients heal different things and while most of it is specifically tailored to the individual needs of the client, there are also larger themes that I see connected to certain groups.
While the men usually work with me on healing their disowned masculinity, I have spotted another trend with my 6 & 7-figure coaches, healers, and therapists clients who already have their audience, products, and service in place but are missing the full embodiment of their teachings and Soul gifts on a soul path level.
These clients have done much of their current life healing work on many levels, they have perhaps even done some past life work but have not taken their healing to the soul path level yet which gives us access to the psychological patterns and subconscious programs that were created and fortified over lifetimes and lifetimes.
What I have seen happen over and over again in sessions with these types of clients is that we are brought to the original wound of their own teachings. The last obstacle to their own full embodiment of what they teach, healing on a soul path level is the missing link so to speak.
We teach what we need to learn
This may sound strange, but it is well known that we often teach what we have been struggling with the most ourselves. It’s a bit of a paradox, but “We teach best what we most need to learn.” – a famous quote from Richard Bach author of Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah.
It doesn’t make them any less of a teacher because their understanding exceeds the understanding of the people they teach, in other words, they have more knowledge than the average person around their expertise. What is often missing and what I help them with is fully being able to embody their teachings.
It’s one thing to know things, yet it is a totally different thing to embody your knowledge. Knowing water is wet, is not the same as feeling wet water on your skin. In the same way, that knowing honey is sweet is not the same as having a spoon full of honey in your mouth. Knowledge that is not lived (embodied) is incomplete, it’s an abstract concept or a theory that has yet to be fully put into practice.
This is exactly what comes up in our sessions, the final piece of subconscious wounding on a soul path level that has kept them from fully embodying what they teach. It doesn’t matter if they are already making 6 or 7-figures, because even in the session with the millionaires we see the same dynamic at play. They may to some degree have embodied their teachings deeper, but they are still not able to fully embody them because of subconscious unresolved pain and trauma on a soul path level.
Some real-life client experiences
To better understand this phenomenon let me give you some real-life client examples that illustrate this.
In a session with a millionaire client who teaches that you can have it all, we saw that past life guilt was keeping her from actually allowing herself to enjoy having it all. Because she was subconsciously so driven by past life guilt and a deep desire to make amends, she couldn’t allow herself to really enjoy the abundance and freedom she had created. Over lifetimes and lifetimes, she had been playing out the same wounding of having her fairy-tale happy end within reach but it then slipping through her fingers.
Having it all means having your cake and eating it too (in a positive sense) and that was exactly where she wasn’t able to fully embody her teachings, she was able to generate the wealth and freedom she desired but because she couldn’t allow herself to enjoy it (guilt seeks punishment) she wasn’t allowing herself to truly have it all. We healed the source of the past life guilt in our session which removed the reason why she was subconsciously not allowing herself to truly have it all – even though from the outside looking in it seemed like she did have it all. Outwardly this was certainly true, but inwardly there was still a disconnect that kept her running and achieving but never fully enjoying.
A 6-figure client had subconscious wounding around visibility, something she helped her clients achieve but still carried some unresolved pain and trauma around on a soul path level. Another 7-figure client had struggled in her current life to have love and money, we saw the same pattern over and over again in previous lifetimes until we found the original wound that showed her how the false belief had been created that made her believe that she could only have the one without the other. Being able to see the original story that had created the false belief allowed her to pull out this pattern by the root so that she could fully embody her teachings which were all about teaching women how they can have love and money without having to choose. A theme that many women struggle with.
What is true on a macro level is true on a micro level
The most recent example of this type of session was a little while ago when I worked with a 6-figure healer and coach who teaches surrender in relationships. She also teaches femininity and polarity and has obviously done a lot of healing in her own journey to be able to embody the feminine deeper in her own life and marriage.
During the session, she was brought back to a memory of sexual abuse in this lifetime and we soon identified a pattern of the collapsed inner masculine, childhood abuse and sexual abuse specifically are known to create this pattern. When the inner masculine collapses, the inner feminine is forced to take the inner masculine’s place in order to protect herself. She can only take the inner masculine’s place at the expense of her own feminity. Having no inner masculine to protect her, she becomes hardened and rigid which shuts off her ability to open up and receive. Women with this type of wounding find it extremely hard to let go of control, because with the inner masculine collapsed there is no protection for the inner feminine to truly be vulnerable and open fully. There is no inner safety, to fully lean back in their feminine essence.
Any pattern we witness on an incarnation level has a deeper root on a soul path level, you can’t have the one without the other. If we encounter a collapsed inner masculine in the current incarnation (the micro level), there has to be a soul path (macro level) pattern of the collapsed inner masculine that created the current manifestation of it and has often been on rinse and repeat throughout lifetimes and lifetimes.
We traced this pattern back to the original wound as far back as Atlantis which allowed her to heal this pattern at the root cause. This ancient wounding had been the thing that had kept her from fully being able to surrender and from fully being able to embody her inner feminine, despite consciously desiring to do so. Our session helped her find the final piece that had kept her from being able to fully embody her own teachings.
Opening up to their next level
Again, I want to reiterate that these people are already much further in mastering their expertise than say you and I. They had also in most cases done a ton of healing prior to us working together. All I had to do was help them with the very last leg of the journey by helping them find the original wound that kept them from fully embodying what they are here to teach and share with the world.
It also goes to show you that, you don’t have to fully embody what you teach to create abundance. At this level, money isn’t the problem anymore, it’s the subconscious desire to walk their talk (fully embody their teachings) that brings them to me – even if some other external circumstance appears to be the driving factor.
Not only does this full embodiment open the way to their next level, but most importantly it allows them to fully master the soul theme that they have been working on over lifetimes and lifetimes. This gives the kind of ROI (return on investment) that is priceless because it brings them into full alignment with their soul which creates a sense of feeling and knowing that you are completely dialed into your soul – that money can’t buy.
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With my deepest love,
