Why Most People Never Step Into Their BIG Manifestations or Think the Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work for Them

So recently I had a Soul Embodiment™ Therapy Journeys session with a potential client who felt the Law of Attraction wasn’t working for her. She had lost her job and was interviewing for a new one, but kept being rejected. When I asked her under which circumstances she had left her old job, she told me how she had been unjustly fired because of a co-worker who is friends with the boss had made her look bad and had manipulated the boss into firing her.

No matter how good someone like this looks on paper, imagine the pissy vibe someone who went through such an experience (and has not been able to let go) must be sending out. Without being able to put their finger on it, anyone interviewing her will pick up this vibe that might even flare up during the job interview when she is asked why she left her old job… She might be a perfect fit for the job, but still the energetic vibration she is sending out, even if she is not aware it’s happening will make her an unattractive candidate. Probably without even knowing why, the interviewer will reject her because they feel somethings off.

It’s not that the law of attraction didn’t work for her, it did. It perfectly magnetized into her reality the fruits of her thoughts and feelings, they were just not positive results – because that was what she was sending out. She was sending out thoughts and feelings of injustice, of lack and loss and so that was what she attracted back in her reality.

So my advice to her was to ignore any ideas of injustice, it’s an illusion and I told her to see this situation as a blessing. An experience, that even if she could not see how yet at this moment came to serve her and bless her in some way. It could be through a better job, a higher salary, meeting the love of her life in her new work environment or connecting to a new group of people that would support her soul evolution. Just to name a few options. I told her to get to a neutral feeling towards the co-worker that got her fired and her ex-boss so that the vibe she was sending off would change and that she would also energetically become an attractive choice for a future employer.

The thing is the Law of Attraction can never fail. It’s a law and therefore always works in the same way, pretty much like a mathematical formula no matter what number you put through it the formula always works the same way. Or computer code, the input determines the output but the process of creating the output from the input always stays the same. So if you feel the Law of Attraction is not working for you, chances are you are overlooking some part where your thoughts and feelings are not aligned to the end result you want to attract.

Like this lady who desperately wanted a new source of income, a job and was throwing everything at it – overlooking the fact that the emotions she was still carrying around from her previous workplace were keeping her from aligning to something new. It doesn’t really matter if you are carrying around the past into the now in your work environment or say your love life. It works the exact same way. Until you make peace with the past, you cannot move forward in the NOW.

Are you sure you really want this?

When making major changes, that will alter the reality you experience indefinitely the subconscious mind that is programmed to keep you safe and to sustain your survival will double check if you really want to alter the source code. It will do this by bringing you an experience that literally forces you to decide if you are committed to the new reality that your new believe will manifest or that you will stick to the reality you are currently living. This experience is like a popup in the computer that asks you if you are sure you want to proceed with the alteration you are making, except when it happens it will probably feel more like the rug is pulled out from under you.

It will shock you to the core and leave you no option then to either say ‘Yes’ or ‘No’.

Yes leading to the new reality manifesting itself in your physical experience and No to going back to the same old, leaving things just the way they are.

I have had this experience twice this year.

The first time it was when I committed to trusting my own judgment, something my Twin Flame had mirrored me to be my own next step. As soon as I decided I was going to trust my own judgment, my twin texted me that the one thing I was dead certain about, his love for me – was gone as far as he was concerned or actually wasn’t as deep as I thought it was. I chose not to believe him and press forward with trusting my own judgment, that brought me into the complete new life I am living now.

The second time was more recently.

• I had just decided two things, to step into a leadership role in regards to Twin Flames and start teaching what I had learned from my own journey and in my work with twin’s in the Soul Embodiment™ Therapy Journeys.
• I had also decided to recommit to my Twin Flame Reunion with my own twin and had just wrote a life changing teaching on Twin Flame Separation.

The day I was going to publish this teaching I had a mini session with someone who claimed to be a Twin Flame in union, helping other twin’s reach union. Someone had pointed her out to me and I was curious about what she did for my own union and some Twin Flame projects I am working on. But somehow I felt I shouldn’t discuss these projects until I was really sure about the quality of her work and although normally I would have just booked a full session with someone, I felt doubt this time so I booked a mini session on Skype first.

The session started really chaotically, first her camera wasn’t working and instead of showing her it showed a pile of unfolded laundry and some folded laundry. Then she restarted her laptop and she couldn’t log into Skype again. She messaged me on Facebook that she was trying to come back, but otherwise that it meant I wasn’t allowed to receive her message. Fifteen minutes later than planned she came online and came completely out of left field with the message that the man I thought to be my Twin Flame was in fact not my twin, my twin was out of embodiment and had used this guy in India (he apparently couldn’t find anyone closer to home) to channel him, because he was the only one strong enough to handle my ‘real’ twin’s energy. She was so convinced of the truth of what she was saying she offered to refund the half of the mini session and realized I would not be signing up for the longer more expensive session she had to offer.

Of everything this woman could have said to me, the one thing I never expected her to say was that my twin was in fact not my twin and she was convincing enough right? She was even ready to put her money where her mouth was and lose me as a client. I would lie if I would say her certainty didn’t shake me for a second. I had just recommitted to my twin (who she claimed was not my twin). I was just about to publish this killer blog that was not standard Twin Flame stuff and I had just started a Twin Flame Facebook group that was quickly becoming a growing strong and active community. If I were to believe this woman, my whole foundation would be based more or less on an illusion because everything I held true, would have been false. Plus if I had missed that my own twin was out of embodiment, what business would I have teaching others about the Twin Flame Journey if my own journey had not even been as real as I thought it was?

This is how earth shattering these ‘Are you really sure?‘ moments are. They literally pull the rug out from under you and force you to decide how committed you are about the new road you are embarking on.

Bentinho Massaro calls this the second day principle. Luckily I knew about this phenomenon and I was able to quickly snap out of it and see that this woman and her message were nothing but my second day test. Whatever your second day test is going to look like, you can bet on it that it will really rattle you and test everything you believe in. It will shake your whole foundation.

The reason it does this, is because the subconscious mind wants to be 100% certain that you really want to reprogram the source code that will then create another output – a different reality.

You can watch this video to hear Bentinho Massaro elaborate on the working of this concept.

When things seem to go wrong

Another bump in the road comes when your reality seems to spiral out of control instead of towards the manifestation of your heart’s desire. If you are super aligned to something, pulling it into your life will not be that hard. It becomes a different story when you have subconscious wounding and beliefs around what you want to manifest that then start playing out in your reality.

This happened to me in 2012 when I wanted to bust through the 5 figures a month and everything started falling apart. Clients weren’t paying, no new clients coming in. I couldn’t pay the team, my house, my car…. I was on the verge of losing everything.

Interesting thing was that the believe causing all this havoc that I had brought in from a past life was ‘being rich means losing everything, including yourself…’ and it was literally becoming my reality in this life – because that is what the subconscious mind does it creates in the outer world what we hold true in our inner world.

This is where a lot of people decide that it’s just not meant to be. That they are not allowed to have their heart’s desire or that it’s just too hard or not important enough to them… This is also a moment where people scream ‘See, I knew that whole Law of attraction thing was… bullshit… too good to be true… wouldn’t work (for me)….etc.’ and they give up.

Two months after I had the healing session where I recovered this subconscious believe, I made my first 5 figure month ever. The Universe loves us so much, she wants to fulfill our every heart’s desire. The Universe always wants more for us than we could ever want for ourselves, so if you run into trouble on your way to manifesting a BIG desire, look within your own subconscious mind to find what is keeping you out of vibrational alignment.

When the shit hits the fan, it’s time to look inside and give that extra push. Because you are almost there.

The final test

‘Before a dream is realized, the Soul of the World tests everything that was learned along the way. It does this not because it is evil, but so that we can, in addition to realizing our dreams, master the lessons we’ve learned as we’ve moved toward that dream. That’s the point at which most people give up. It’s the point at which, as we say in the language of the desert, one ‘dies of thirst just when the palm trees have appeared on the horizon.’

Paulo Coelho
The Alchemist

When working on the important and BIG life altering manifestations often even when you have cleared all the obstacles, moved through all the tests there can be this period in which you still don’t see physical evidence of your manifestation. Sometimes, the shift is immediate – but when it’s not it’s important to be patient and keep faith.

In my most BIGGEST manifestations I have experienced that at the end you have this time period in which you are just asked to have blind faith and trust that the thing you have asked for is on it’s way. There is nothing left to do except, to keep faith and wait for divine timing.

For example with the 5 figures a month. It took two months after I cleared that past life belief, in order for the €10.000,- in sales to manifest. Just before it manifested, I brought in a €9K project, but the client wanted to pay in three monthly installments of each €3K.

The €9K was a pre-manifestation and you will see that often before a BIG manifestation becomes a reality, that you will get ‘smaller’ pre-manifestations and signs that what you deeply desire is on it’s way. Instead of seeing these as proof that you just can’t manifest what you really want, see them as evidence that what you are working on is on it’s way and that you are getting closer and closer everyday.

Another thing that can happen, which also happened to Santiago when he finally reached the pyramids in The Alchemist (mandatory reading for everyone serious about working with the law of attraction) is that just before the BIG manifestation, all seems lost.

Every great work, every big accomplishment, has been brought into manifestation through holding to the vision, and often just before the big achievement, comes apparent failure and discouragement.’ 

Florence Scovel Shinn

It is always darkest, just before the dawn. When all seems lost, when working on manifesting something HUGE, know that it’s just a test of faith. Your faith, will bring it in manifestation just keep believing and your beliefs will become your reality. This moment is pretty much like the second day principle, a test of your commitment to your heart’s desire.

Are you sure you really want this?

It’s asking you if you want to bail or if you will take the leap of faith needed to bring about your demonstration…

I pray this teaching helps you navigate the rough spots you can run into when you are working on BIG manifestations, that it will help you to hang in there and move through – to not stop until you get where you want to be. Because that is what it takes to become a Master manuscriptr.

To become the master of your reality.